After David ends his period of ืืืืืืช ืจืฉืืช and creates his kingdom of (ืฉืืืื ื ื:ืื)โ ืขืฉื ืืฉืคื ืืฆืืงื ืืื ืขืื, he sends a delegation to Amon:
ื ืืืื ืืืจื ืื ืืืืช ืืื ืื ื ืขืืื; ืืืืื ืื ืื ืื ื ืชืืชืืื
ื ืืืืืจ ืืื ืืขืฉื ืืกื ืขื ืื ืื ืื ื ืืฉ ืืืฉืจ ืขืฉื ืืืื ืขืืื ืืกื ืืืฉืื ืืื ืื ืืื ืืื ืขืืืื ืื ืืืื; ืืืืื ืขืืื ืืื ืืจืฅ ืื ื ืขืืืื
Now, this is strikingly different from the way he treated Amonโs sister state, Moav:
ืืื ืืช ืืืื ืืืืืื ืืืื ืืฉืื ืืืชื ืืจืฆื ืืืืื ืฉื ื ืืืืื ืืืืืช ืืืื ืืืื ืืืืืืช; ืืชืื ืืืื ืืืื ืืขืืืื ื ืฉืื ืื ืืื
There is no hint in ืชื ืดื what the king of Amon might have done, that David would say ืืืฉืจ ืขืฉื ืืืื ืขืืื ืืกื. Even the most stringent ืืขืื ืคืฉื have to go back to the Aggadah:
ื ืืืื ืืื ืืฉื ืืืืื ืื ืืขืจืช ืขืืื; ืืืฉืืขื ืืืื ืืื ืืืช ืืืื ืืืจืื ืืืื ืฉืืื
โฆื ืืืื ืืื ืืฉื ืืฆืคื ืืืื; ืืืืืจ ืื ืืื ืืืื ืืฆื ื ื ืืื ืืืื ืืชืื ืขื ืืฉืจ ืืืข ืื ืืขืฉื ืื ืืืงืืื
ื ืืื ืื ืืช ืคื ื ืืื ืืืื; ืืืฉืื ืขืื ืื ืืื ืืืืช ืืื ืืืฆืืืื
ื ืืืืืจ ืื ืื ืืื ืื ืืื ืื ืชืฉื ืืืฆืืื ืื ืืืืช ืื ืืจืฅ ืืืืื; ืืืื ืืื ืืืื ืืขืจ ืืจืชื
And then Davidโs family disappears, except for one brother who becomes the ื ืฉืื of ืืืืื:
ืื ืืขื ืฉืืื ืืฉืจืื ืืจืืืื ื ื ืืื ืืืืขืืจ ืื ืืืจื;
ืืฉืืขืื ื ืฉืคืืืื ืื ืืขืืื
ืื ืืืื ืืฉืืื ืื ืงืืืื ืืืืจื ืฆืืืงื
ืื ืืืืืื ืืืืื ืืืื ืืืื;
ืืืฉืฉืืจ ืขืืจื ืื ืืืืืื
ืืฉืืื ืืื ืืืจื ืื ืฉืืื, ืืื ืืื ืืื ืืืช ืืืื ืืฆื ืื ื ืืืื. ืืืจ ืืื: ืงืืื ืืืช ืืื ืฉื ืืืจ โืืื ืื ืืช ืคื ื ืืื ืืืื ืืืืืจ ืืฉื ื ื ืืื ืืืืโ. ืงืืื ืืืชื, ืืืืื ืฉืืฆื ืืื ืขืื ืืื ืืืื ืืืจื ืืืืื ืืืืื ืืืืืื ืฉื ืืื ืืื ื ืฉืชืืืจ ืืื ืืื ืืื ืฉื ืืืจ (ืืืจื ืืืืื ื ืื:ืื) โืืืืืื ืืืืื ืืืื ืืืืโ ืฉืื ื ืฉืชืืืจ ืืื ืืื ืืื ืืืจื ืืืื ืืืื ืืืื ืืฆื ื ืืฉ ืืื ืื ื ืขืืื ืฉืื ืืื ืืืื ืืืืจ ืื ืืฉ ืฉืื ืื ืืฆืื ืืื ืืืื ืืื ืืืจ ืื ืืื ืืฉืืจื ืขื ืฉืื ืืื.
But Amonโs response is shocking:
ื ืืืืืจื ืฉืจื ืื ื ืขืืื ืื ืื ืื ืืื ืืื ืืืืื ืืื ืืช ืืืื ืืขืื ืื ืื ืฉืื ืื ืื ืืืื; ืืืื ืืขืืืจ ืืงืจ ืืช ืืขืืจ ืืืจืืื ืืืืคืื ืฉืื ืืื ืืช ืขืืืื ืืืืื
ื ืืืงื ืื ืื ืืช ืขืืื ืืื ืืืืื ืืช ืืฆื ืืงื ื ืืืืจืช ืืช ืืืืืื ืืืฆื ืขื ืฉืชืืชืืื; ืืืฉืืืื
ื ืืืืื ืืืื ืืืฉืื ืืงืจืืชื ืื ืืื ืืื ืฉืื ื ืืืืื ืืื; ืืืืืจ ืืืื ืฉืื ืืืจืื ืขื ืืฆืื ืืงื ืื ืืฉืืชืื
As an aside, David has them wait in ืืจืื because itโs right over the Jordan, and because no one lived there:
ืืืฉืืข ืืืืฉืข ืืขืช ืืืื ืืืืจ; ืืจืืจ ืืืืฉ ืืคื ื ืืณ ืืฉืจ ืืงืื ืืื ื ืืช ืืขืืจ ืืืืช ืืช ืืจืืื ืืืืจื ืืืกืื ื ืืืฆืขืืจื ืืฆืื ืืืชืืื
What went wrong in Davidโs overture to Amon? ืืืดื read ืชื ืดื as ืกืคืจื ื ืืืื, so there must be a message in the textโs choice of what incidents to relate. There is an inherent problem in trusting Amon:
ื ืื ืืื ืขืืื ื ืืืืืื ืืงืื ืืณ; ืื ืืืจ ืขืฉืืจื ืื ืืื ืืื ืืงืื ืืณ ืขื ืขืืืื
ื ืขื ืืืจ ืืฉืจ ืื ืงืืื ืืชืื ืืืื ืืืืื ืืืจื ืืฆืืชืื ืืืฆืจืื; ืืืฉืจ ืฉืืจ ืขืืื ืืช ืืืขื ืื ืืขืืจ ืืคืชืืจ ืืจื ื ืืจืื ืืงืืืื
ื ืืื ืืื ืืณ ืืืงืื ืืฉืืข ืื ืืืขื ืืืืคื ืืณ ืืืงืื ืื ืืช ืืงืืื ืืืจืื; ืื ืืืื ืืณ ืืืงืืื
ื ืื ืชืืจืฉ ืฉืืื ืืืืชื ืื ืืืื ืืขืืืื
ืืฃ ืขื ืคื ืฉืืชืืชื (ืืืจืื ื:ื) ืึดึผื ืชึดืงึฐืจึทื ืึถื ืขึดืืจ ืึฐืึดืึธึผืึตื ืขึธืึถืืึธ ืึฐืงึธืจึธืืชึธ ืึตืึถืืึธ ืึฐืฉึธืืืึนื, ืืืื ืื ืชืขืฉื ืื; โืื ืชืืจืืฉ ืฉืืืื ืืืืืชืโ. ืืช ืืืฆื ืืื ืฉืื ืขืืื ืืืืช ืจืืืื ืืกืืฃ ืื ืืืื ืืืืื, ืืืืืืช ืืฆืจืืจ; ืืืืื? ืื ืืื (ืฉืืืื ื ื) โืืืืืจ ืืื ืืขืฉื ืืกื ืขื ืื ืื ืื ื ืืฉโ. ืืืจ ืื ืืงืืืฉ ืืจืื ืืื: ืืชื ืชืขืืืจ ืขื ืืืจื? ืื ื ืืชืืชื ืื ืชืืจืืฉ ืฉืืืื ืืืืืชื, ืืืชื ืขืืฉื ืขืื ืืืืืืช ืืกื? (ืงืืืช ื:ืื) ืึทื ืชึผึฐืึดื ืฆึทืึผึดืืง ืึทืจึฐืึผึตื, ืฉืื ืืื ืืื ืืืืชืจ ืขื ืืชืืจื. ืืื ืฉืืื ืื ืื ืื ื ืขืืื ืืืขืฉืืช ืขืื ืืกื ืกืืฃ ืื ืืืื ืืืืื (ืฉืืืื ื ื) โืืืงื ืื ืื ืืช ืขืืื ืืื ืืืืื ืืช ืืฆื ืืงื ื ืืืืจืช ืืช ืืืืืื ืืืฆื ืขื ืฉืชืืชืืื ืืืฉืืืโ, ืืื ืืืื ืืืืื ืขื ืืจื ื ืืจืื ืืืืื ืฆืืื ืืืืื ืืขืื ืืขื ืื ื ืขืืืโฆืื ืืจื ืืืื ืื? ืฉืืงืฉ ืืขืฉืืช ืืืื ืขื ืื ืฉืืืจ ืืงืืืฉ ืืจืื ืืื ืื ืชืืจืืฉ ืฉืืืื.
The pasuk of ืึทื ืชึผึฐืึดื ืฆึทืึผึดืืง ืึทืจึฐืึผึตื is the same one ืืืดื use to describe Saul who had pity on the king of Amalek:
ืฉืืืจ ืื ืืงืืดื ืืฉืืื (ืฉืืืื ื:ืื) ืื ืืืืืช ืืช ืขืืืงโฆืืฆืื ืืช ืงืื ืืืืจื ืื (ืงืืืืช ื:ืื) ืื ืชืื ืฆืืืง ืืจืื. ืืืฉืขื ืฉืืืจ ืื ืฉืืื ืืืืื (ืฉืืืื ื:ืื) ืกืื ืืชื ืืคืืข ืืืื ืื ืืฆืื ืืช ืงืื ืืืืจื ืื (ืงืืืืช ื:ืื) ืึทื ืชึผึดืจึฐืฉืึทืข ืึทืจึฐืึผึตื.
The Kesef Mishna proposes a reason that David might have felt that he was justified in his overture to Amon:
ืืชืื ืืืืืช ืืืืืื ืฉื ืืืจ ืื ืชืืจืืฉ ืืืืณ ืืชื ืจืืดื [ืจืื ืืืืขืืจ ืื ืฉืืืื ืืึตืืฅ, ืืืืืื ืืขืื ืืชืืกืคืืช, ืืืืจ ืกืคืจ ืืจืืื] ืืืดื? ืืืจืืฉืช ืฉืืื ืืืกืืจ, ืืื ืชืฉืืืื ืฉืืื ืืืชืจ, ืืืื ืื ืขืฉื ืขืื ืืกื ืืืชืจ ืืคืงืื ืืฉืืื ืฉื ืืืจ โืืืืช ืืื ืื ื ืขืืื ืืืืืื ืื ืื ืื ื ืชืืชืื ืืืืืจ ืืื ืืขืฉื ืืกื ืขื ืื ืื ืื ื ืืฉ ืืืฉืจ ืขืฉื ืืืื ืขืืื ืืกื ืืืฉืื ืืื ืื ืืืโ ืขืืดื. ืืืฉ ืืชืืื ืขื ืื ืฉืืืจื ืืืดื ืืืืจืฉ [ืฉืื ืืืืื ืขืฉื ืืื ืืื].
Rambamโs formulation indicates that the prohibition is addressed to the community rather than the individualโฆThus may Dovid have rationalized. He sent the messengers as an individual who appreciated a favor once done to his familyโฆit had nothing to do with his kingly duties and therefore did not fall within the public domain.
The ืืฉืืฆืืช ืืื makes the same point, noting that the pasuk says ืืืฉืื ืืื ืื ืืื ืืื ืขืืืื ืื ืืืื, not ืืื ืืืื ืืื ืฉืจื ืืืืืื, and they went ืื ืืื ืื ืืืื, not as king of Amon but as a son in mourning.
But the truth is that the king represents the people as a whole. Nothing David does now represents himself as an individual. Whatever good Amon did to him personally does not outweigh the utter evil that Amon not so long before had committed against Israel:
ื ืืืขื ื ืืฉ ืืขืืื ื ืืืื ืขื ืืืืฉ ืืืขื; ืืืืืจื ืื ืื ืฉื ืืืืฉ ืื ื ืืฉ ืืจืช ืื ื ืืจืืช ืื ืขืืืื
ื ืืืืืจ ืืืืื ื ืืฉ ืืขืืื ื ืืืืช ืืืจืช ืืื ืื ืงืืจ ืืื ืื ืขืื ืืืื; ืืฉืืชืื ืืจืคื ืขื ืื ืืฉืจืืื
ื ืืืืืจื ืืืื ืืงื ื ืืืืฉ ืืจืฃ ืื ื ืฉืืขืช ืืืื ืื ืฉืืื ืืืืืื ืืื ืืืื ืืฉืจืื; ืืื ืืื ืืืฉืืข ืืชื ื ืืืฆืื ื ืืืืื
ื ืืืืื ืืืืืืื ืืืขืช ืฉืืื ืืืืืจื ืืืืจืื ืืืื ื ืืขื; ืืืฉืื ืื ืืขื ืืช ืงืืื ืืืืืื
ื ืืื ื ืฉืืื ืื ืืืจื ืืืงืจ ืื ืืฉืื ืืืืืจ ืฉืืื ืื ืืขื ืื ืืืื; ืืืกืคืจื ืื ืืช ืืืจื ืื ืฉื ืืืืฉื
ื ืืชืฆืื ืจืื ืืืงืื ืขื ืฉืืื ืืฉืืขื (ืืฉืืขื) ืืช ืืืืจืื ืืืื; ืืืืจ ืืคื ืืืื
ื ืืืงื ืฆืื ืืงืจ ืืื ืชืืื ืืืฉืื ืืื ืืืื ืืฉืจืื ืืื ืืืืืืื ืืืืจ ืืฉืจ ืืื ื ื ืืฆื ืืืจื ืฉืืื ืืืืจ ืฉืืืื ืื ืืขืฉื ืืืงืจื; ืืืคื ืคืื ืืณ ืขื ืืขื ืืืฆืื ืืืืฉ ืืืื
โฆืื ืืืื ืืืืจืช ืืืฉื ืฉืืื ืืช ืืขื ืฉืืฉื ืจืืฉืื ืืืืื ืืชืื ืืืื ื ืืืฉืืจืช ืืืงืจ ืืืื ืืช ืขืืื ืขื ืื ืืืื; ืืืื ืื ืฉืืจืื ืืืคืฆื ืืื ื ืฉืืจื ืื ืฉื ืื ืืืื
And here Amon proves the point by humiliating David despite his best intentions.
How does David respond to this provocation? We donโt see in the text (the next psukim are about Amonโs response to how they think David will respond), but there is a chapter of ืชืืืืื that may be relevant:
ื ืืื ืฆื ืขื ืืืืชืื ืืืืืจ ืืืืื
ื ืื ืื ืืืงืื ืืืืื ื ืคืฉื; ืืื ื ืืฉืืขืชืื
ื ืื ืืื ืฆืืจื ืืืฉืืขืชื; ืืฉืืื ืื ืืืื ืจืืื
ื ืขื ืื ื ืชืืืชืชื ืขื ืืืฉ ืชึผึฐืจึธืฆึผึฐืืึผ ืืืื;
ืืงืืจ ื ืืื; ืืืจ ืืืืืืื
ื ืื ืืฉืืชื ืืขืฆื ืืืืื ืืจืฆื ืืื;
ืืคืื ืืืจืื; ืืืงืจืื ืืงืืื ืกืืื
ืขื ืืืืชืื: ืฉื ืืื ืฉืืจ. ืืืืจืฉ ืืืื ืขื ืืืชืืช ืืขื ืืืื ืื ืื ืืืจืื ืขื ืืฉืจืื ืืืืืืืื.
ืืืืื ื ืคืฉื: ืืฆืคื ื ืคืฉื.
ืืืืื: ืืืจืืฉื ืืฉืืชืงืช ืขื ืฉืชืื ืืฉืืขืชื.
Artscroll combines these as โOnly for G-d does my soul wait silentlyโ.
The phrase ืื ืืืื ืจืื seems grammatically off; it literally means โI will not falter largeโ. The commentators have to add words:
ืื ืืืื: ืืืื ืจืื.
ืืฉืืื ืื ืืืื ืจืื: ืืื.
Even so, it seems to be damning by faint praise: ืืณ will only let me slip a little? Sforno reads ืจืื as an apostrophe. This perek is addressed to ืขืืื and its capital ืจืื, or ืจืืช ืื ื ืขืืื:
ืื ืืืืืืจ ืืืจ ืขื ืื ื ืขืืื ืฉืงืจืขื ืืืื ืขืืื ืืื ืืฉืจ ืฉืื ืื ืื ืืช ืื ืื ืืืื ืขื ืืืชืช ืืืื
ืฉืืืจื ืื ืฉืื ืืื ืืจืืืื.
ืื ืืืื ืจืื: ืืขื ืื ืจืืช ืื ื ืขืืื ืฉืื ืืืื ืืื ืืืืืข ืืฉืืื ืืืืืชื.
ืขื ืื ื ืชืืืชืชื: ืืืืจืช ืึทืึผืึนืช ืชืืฉืื ืขืืื.
ืึดึผื ืืึผื ืึทืฆึดึผืืึฐืึธ ืึดืคึทึผื ืึธืงืึผืฉื; ืึดืึถึผืึถืจ ืึทืึผืึนืชื
ืขื ืื ื ืชืืืชืชื ืขื ืืืฉ:
ืืื ื ืืชื ืขืืื ืื ืื ืืืืื ืขื ืื ื ืชืฉืืื ืืืืช ืืืืฉืื ืจืขื ืืืืืื ื.
ืชึผึฐืจึธืฆึผึฐืืึผ could be read as โmay you all be murderedโ:
ืชืจืฆืื ืืืืื: ืืื ืจืฆืื ืฉืชืจืฆืื ืืืืื.
But that doesnโt seem to fit the theme of trusting in ืืณ. Artscroll cites Rashbam and Ibn Yachya (neither of which I can find) that this is David addressing his enemies, โYou all plan to murder me!โ. His enemies are subtle, setting up the situation so they cannot be blamed:
ืืจืฉ ืจืื: ืืื ืืืชืื (ืชืืืืื ืกื) โืขื ืื ื ืชืืืชืชื ืขื ืืืฉ ืชืจืฆืื ืืืืื ืืงืืจ ื ืืื ืืืจ ืืืืืืโ? ืืืื ืฉืืื ื ืืชื ืื ืขืื ืืื ืืืขืื ืืืื ืืืืฉืืืื ืืืชื ืืฆื ืงืืจ ื ืืื ืืืืืื ืืืชื ืขืืื ืืืืื ืื ืืืืื ืืช ืืืื ื.
And more that that, they would arrange for their victim to be liable for the damage:
ืืืืืื ืืืชื ืขืืื ืืืณ: ืฉื ืืืืื ืืืื ื ืืืื ืืืืื ืืคืืื ืืื ืืงืืจ ืืืืื, โืื ืืืืื ืืืื ืโ ืจืฆืื ื ืืืืจ ืฉื ืืงืืจ, ืฉืืืืจืื ืฉืืืืงื ืืืคืื ืืื ืืืชื ืืจืื ืืืืื ืืฉืื ืืืชื ืืงืืจ.
ืื ืืฉืืชื ืืขืฆื ืืืืื means โonly because of hisโthe ืืืฉ of ืคืกืืง ืโelevated stature do they plot to topple himโ.
And Sforno continues to read all this as referring to the Amonites:
ืืจืฆื ืืื: ืจืฆื ืืืืจ ืื ืฉืฉืืืชื ืืืชื ืืืจืืืื ืฉืืื ืืื.
Second verse, same as the first!
ื ืื ืืืืงืื ืืืื ื ืคืฉื; ืื ืืื ื ืชืงืืชืื
ื ืื ืืื ืฆืืจื ืืืฉืืขืชื; ืืฉืืื ืื ืืืืื
ื ืขื ืืืงืื ืืฉืขื ืืืืืื; ืฆืืจ ืขืื ืืืกื ืืืืงืืื
ื ืืืื ืื ืืื ืขืช ืขื ืฉืคืื ืืคื ืื ืืืืื;
ืืืงืื ืืืกื ืื ื ืกืืื
This stich expresses the same faith in ืืณ, but here itโs addressed to the people: ืืืื ืื ืืื ืขืช, ืขื rather than the ืจืฉืขืื.
Then David concludes that there is no point in worrying about their evil plans; itโs all ืืื. Thatโs usually translated as โvanityโ but that word has a different meaning in modern English. ืืื means โbreath, puff of airโ.
ื ืื ืืื ืื ื ืืื ืืื ืื ื ืืืฉ;
ืืืืื ืื ืืขืืืช; ืืื ืืืื ืืืื
ืื ืื ืชืืืื ืืขืฉืง ืืืืื ืื ืชืืืื;
ืืื ืื ืื ืื ืื ืชืฉืืชื ืืื
ืื ืืืช ืืืจ ืืืงืื ืฉืชืื ืื ืฉืืขืชื; ืื ืขื ืืืืงืืื
ืื ืืื ืึพืื ื ืืกื; ืื ืืชื ืชืฉืื ืืืืฉ ืืืขืฉืืื
ืื ืืื ืื ื ืืื: ืืื ืชืืจืื ืืื ืืืืจ ืฉืืงืืดื ืืืกื ืื ื ืืขืช ืฆืจื.
ืืื ืื ืื ืื: ืื ืชืจืื ืจืฉืขืื ืฉืืืื ื ืืฆืืื ืืืื ืื ืชืฉืืชื ืื.
ืื ืื: ืืฆืื ืืฉืื ืชื ืืื.
ืืืช ืืืจ ืืืงืื ืฉืชืื ืื ืฉืืขืชื in the ืคืฉื is simply emphatic: โืืณ has said this not once but many timesโ.
ืืืช ืืืจ ืืืงืื. ืคืขื ืืฉืชืื ืืืืืจ ืคืขืืื ืจืืืช ืืืจ ืืืืื ืืฉืืขื ื ืืคื ื ืืืืื ืื ืืขืื ืืืืงืื ืืืื, ืืื ืืื ืื ืืืื ืืืืื ืื ืืืื ืืื ืืืืื ื.
ืืืดื saw in this pasuk the idea that Torah has multiple levels of meaning; one word of G-d should be heard in multiple ways:
ืืืจ ืืืื ืืืืจ ืงืจื (ืชืืืื ืกื:ืื) โืืืช ืืืจ ืืืงืื ืฉืชืื ืื ืฉืืขืชื; ืื ืขื ืืืืงืืโ: ืืงืจื ืืื ืืืฆื ืืืื ืืขืืื.
But the meaning in context is that ืืณ has said over and over again that He will mete out the appropriate punishment; ืืชื ืชืฉืื ืืืืฉ ืืืขืฉืื. There is no reason for David to seek revenge against Amon. He thinks he has learned the lessons of the wars with Moav and Edom. But life is never that easy.